Wow what great speakers at the conference wish EVERY mom could hear some of the things we heard.
And the girls to say No to the Bozo --
Mostly that mom's are not to be their daughters Friends... and that is so hard - it does get easier tho as they get older...I feel my oldest Jes and I have a More mom/ friend relationship now-- of course she is out on her own and I am friend when she wants it and mom when she needs it seems like it is more about her wants and needs then my own but I am OK with that -- I got lots of friends it is nice to be on an even keel relationship with her!!! LOL
With Jen right now it is hard because she and I are in thr throes of her growing up years and I can no be her friend but it really makes me sad to see her being friends with other moms out there and I guess the difference is Jes was so anti social I don't remember her doing that where Jen has coaches and such that she gravitates towards. And because she is a great kid and sometimes mature in conversation and thinking they treat her as an equal ..kinda weird but seeing it happen and only getting a small piece of her occasionally well it is hard ..it is sad.. for me -- but I am trusting that because there are times she and I have fun and click ..that as she grows up we too will have a good relationship.
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